What is your definition of creating an extraordinary life?
An exceptional life is beautifully framed by the circle that surrounds us. I am utterly blessed to share my journey with those I love and treasure, who remain steadfast in my corner and on my team. Concepts like indulgence and adventure would lose their lustre without the presence of your tribe.
How do you embrace the extraordinary?
I’m a yes girl. I take life by the balls.
How has what you do help people embrace the extraordinary?
I think an orgasm is pretty extraordinary. It represents a profound and uniquely human sensation, crafted solely by our bodies. It’s that sweet release we all need and crave, and to be able to provide this to the femme community in the form of a wellness tool is a revolutionary step that benefits those that are solo as well as partnered up. Pleasure is our birthright and I think women are welcoming this notion with open arms, now more than ever.
How does love play into the game of life?
I’ll let the luminous poetic precision of Rainer Maria Rilke’s do the talking - ‘For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation’.
What has been your biggest experience with love so far?
My papa bear passed away in my arms a few years ago and the grief was so fierce and loud that I never thought I would be able to recover, but it taught me that grief never ends, it changes. It’s a passage and not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith, but the price of love.
People believe good sex is just over the edge of perception, what are their steps to achieving this?
Good sex starts with thyself. You know your body and ultimately what works for you in the boudoir. If not, it’s time to get reacquainted - we have 10 finger puppets and a plethora of vibrators for a reason. Self-discovery is the bridge to enriching your sexual relationships. The confidence exuded when you're genuinely enjoying your own body liberates you from overthinking and allows you to fully immerse in the moment.
Great sex is made up of two halves. Often we think he, she or they are ‘amazing’ in bed, but you make up half of that amazingness. Remember that.